Losing doesn’t make me want to quit. It makes me want to fight that much harder. Paul “Bear” Bryant
Homily Paradox
If we’re supposed to make lemonade when life brings us lemons, when life brings us plums, should we make prune juice? Self
Lives Lived
All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts. William Shakespeare, As You Like It, Act II Scene VII
Battle Investment
Be more committed to your defense than your opponent is to the attack. Self
Schadenfreude
Rejoice not against me, O mine enemy: when I fall, I shall arise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light unto me. I will bear the indignation of the Lord, because I have sinned against him, until he plead my cause, and execute judgment for me: he will bring me forth to the light, and I shall behold his righteousness Micah 7:8-9 KJV
Tom Foolery
If you’re “fooling around,” you just might be the fool. Self
Forgivenesses
When you forgive yourself, whether others forgive you becomes less relevant. Self
Gendersplaining
Manspaining uses 100 words for unambiguous communication. Womansplaining uses 100 words for communicating absolutely nothing.
Self
Relationships
People date those they WANT to fall in love with, not those they know they actually could love. Self
Atheist Zeal
There is no proselyter half so energetic as the hard-shelled atheist. Heywood Broun
Judging Displaces Loving
If you judge people, you have no time to love them. Mother Mary Teresa Bojaxhiu
Nuance matters
There’s not much difference between ‘mouse’ and ‘mouth’ except between the jaws of a cat. Self
Foundational Ratio of American Justice
The law holds that it is better that ten guilty persons escape, than that one innocent suffer. William Blackstone (1769)
It was better to let the crime of a guilty person go unpunished than to condemn the innocent. Coffin, et al. v. United States, 156 U.S. 432 (1895)
Discovering Truth
All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them. Galileo Galilei
Originality and Coincidence
Everything I write is completely original, and any thoughts attributable to another person are entirely coincidental — unless you believe in collective unconsciousness, in which case it is just another expression of the same original thought — unless you subscribe to the notion that everything that is written has already been written before, in which case you have to ask, is the dog chasing its tail or is the tail taunting the dog. Self
Examination of Thoughts
People do not deeply examine that which they deeply disdain. Kellyanne Conway on The Daily
Constant change
“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.” Heraclitus
Life Learning
I have never let my schooling interfere with my education. Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens)
Pipe Dream Foundations
If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. Henry David Thoreau
The Process of Victory
If you believe in yourself and have dedication and pride and never quit, you’ll be a winner. The price of victory is high but so are the rewards. Paul “Bear” Bryant
What Money Buys
Money doesn’t buy happiness; it buys entertainment and distraction (either of which is preferable to mindfulness of unhappiness). Self (Chicago, Ill)
Courage and Honor
You will never do anything in this world without courage. It is the greatest quality of the mind next to honor. Aristotle
Extreme Hope
Extreme hopes are born from extreme misery. Bertrand Russell
Trusting God
Though he slay me, yet will I trust him Job 13:15
Danger in Appeasement
Appeasement only makes the aggressor more aggressive. Henry Strozier as Dean Rusk in Thirteen Days
Seeking the Unattainable
Never stop seeking what seems unattainable. Stephanie Niznik as The Wraith in Star Trek: Enterprise S1E18 (“Rogue Planet”)
Value of a Word
A word is worth a thousand sentences (to an etymologist). Self
MacGyver
Some people can MacGyver any problem. Other people somehow will MacFucker every problem. Self
Inverted Iceberg
Don’t be an inverted iceberg where more is seen than unseen. Lori
Appeasement Fallacy
Appeasers believe that if you keep on throwing steaks to a tiger, the tiger will turn vegetarian. Heywood Broun
No hope of victory
You may have to fight when there is no hope of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves. Winston Churchill
Reclaiming Life
No one can give you your life back, so you have to take your life back. Charlie Cox as Matt Murdock in The Defenders
Cosmologically insignificant
We are just an advanced breed of monkeys on a minor planet of a very average star. But we can understand the universe. That makes us something very special. Stephen Hawking
Live fully
So live, that when thy summons comes to join the innumerable caravan, which moves to that mysterious realm, where each shall take his chamber in the silent halls of death, thou go not, like the quarry-slave at night, scourged to his dungeon, but, sustained and soothed by an unfaltering trust, approach thy grave. William Cullen Bryant, “Thanatopsis”
Fishing and Catching
If you keep fishing in same old sewers, you’ll keep catching the same old shit. Self
Constancy
Constancy is keeping your mind made up while keeping it open too. Self
Confusing an idiot
Smart is not a color that smells good on you. Self
Thoroughness
Let’s not get ahead of ourselves, but let’s not leave any stone unturned either. Self
Extreme provokes extreme
Extreme expression will push others to respond with extreme action Self
Ambivalent value
You can take back your memories; they’re no good to me. All-American Rejects, “Gives You Hell”
Tackling Tyrrany
Fear is the tool of a tyrant. Maurene Comey
We will not live on our knees, and you shouldn’t either. James Comey
Misc. Metaphysics
Nothing unreal exists. Leonard Nimoy as Spock in Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home
Residential Privacy
The most frail cottage in the kingdom is absolutely entitled to the same guarantees of privacy as the most majestic mansion. Florida v. Jimeno,
500 U.S. 248, 254 (1991)
Difference
If things were different, they wouldn’t be the same. Michael Zaslow as Willard Tappan in Law & Order S5E9
Treatment Hurts
A hurt that cures is better than a hurt that endures. Self
Vice of Capitalism, Virtue of Socialism
The inherent vice of capitalism is the unequal sharing of blessings; the inherent virtue of socialism is the equal sharing of miseries. Winston Churchill
Challenging Paths
If you’re not facing challenges, you’re not pursuing your destiny. Self
State of mind
Does having sex on the brain make the person a mastermind? Self
Laws of a Democracy
The law has no moral or ethic; it is merely just or unjust, fair or unfair. Self
Full Disclosure
I can’t tell you what I don’t know! Dominic Keating as Malcolm Reed in Star Trek: Enterprise S4E16 (“Divergence”)
Preparation and Opportunity
Fortuna est quae fit cum praeparatio in occasionem incidit. [Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity] Seneca
Success occurs when opportunity meets preparation. Zig Ziglar
Punctuality
Arriving late wastes your time. Arriving early wastes my time. Self
Discovering Truth
[T]ruth is best discovered by powerful statements on both sides of the question. Lord John Scott Eldon (1751-1838) quoting Sir Francis Bacon (1561-1626)
Immediate priority
That sounds like a tomorrow problem. Let’s get out of here. Mark Valley as Christopher Chance in Human Target S1E3
Disputio
Would you punch yourself in a street fight? Then don’t punch yourself in a word fight.” Denzel Washington as Melvin Tolson in The Great Debaters
Victory only through opportunity
The good fighters of old first put themselves beyond the possibility of defeat, and then waited for an opportunity of defeating the enemy. To secure ourselves against defeat lies in our own hands, but the opportunity of defeating the enemy is provided by the enemy himself. Thus the good fighter is able to secure himself against defeat, but cannot make certain of defeating the enemy. Hence the saying: One may know how to conquer without being able to do it. 孫子 (Sun Tzu), The Art of War
Knowledge Vanishes
Knowledge has to be improved, challenged, and increased constantly, or it vanishes. Peter F. Drucker
Redefine ‘Progress’
Let us redefine ‘progress’ to mean that just because we can do a thing, it does not necessarily follow that we must do that thing. Kurtwood Smith as Federation President in Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country
Cognitive flow
My brain was firing on all five cylinders today. Self
Difficult Forgiveness
It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. William Blake
Spiritual mental health
Mental health issue: failing to operate as if not having the mind of Christ and power Self
Simplify
Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler. Albert Einstein
Civic Morality
Morality cannot be legislated. Self
Christian Mistreatment
The biggest difference between Christ and most Christians is that Christ didn’t mistreat people. George Carneal
Melancholy
The best cure for melancholy is industry. Sarah Polley as Maren Hontvedt in The Weight of Water
Opaque Communication
I guess I should warn you, if I turn out to be particularly clear, you’ve probably misunderstood what I’ve said. Alan Greenspan
I know you think you understand what you thought I said but I’m not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant. Alan Greenspan
Churchplay
Churchplay is a lot like horseplay. self
Accomplish Quickly
Anything worth doing is worth doing quickly, because science moves on, and we’re all mortal, and you want to do things. Eric Cornell, Nova S35E1 (“Absolute Zero”)
Broken or Hardened
Maybe sometimes it’s better to be broken than to be hardened. David Kaczynski
Academic Weariness
Much study is a weariness of the flesh. Ecclesiastes 12:12
Surreal Reality
Reality is nothing more than a persistent illusion. Albert Einstein
The other shoe
There are times in your life when you sense that something is about to happen and at the same time you realize it already has. Sarah Polley as Maren Hontvedt in The Weight of Water
Human distiction: Self-determination
When a man cannot choose he ceases yo be a man. Anthony Burgess, A Clockwork Orange
Errant Conclusions
People jump to the conclusions which best validate their speculations. Self
Control Versus Influence
Just because something is out of our control does not mean that it is outside of our influence. Self
Individual Freedom
A man’s right to swing his fist ends at his neighbor’s nose. A neighbor’s right to be nosy stops at a man’s fist. Self
Medida de ascenso
Tu invidia es mi progreso. lema anónima peruana
Acceptance and Belief
Take me for what I am, but believe in me for what I will be. Self
Plain Honesty
An honest tale speeds best being plainly told. Shakespeare, Richard III
Vainglorious achievement
Behold, that which I have built will I break down, and that which I have planted I will pluck up, even this whole land. And seekest thou great things for thyself? Seek them not. Jer 45:4-5 KJV
Unprecedented Until…
Everything is unprecedented until it happens for the first time. Tom Hanks as Chelsey Sullenberger in Sully
Optics are secondary
Who cares about the cussing? Who cares about the optics? I care about the Constitution. I care about the fact that no one bothered to point out the real problem here. […] Even if it wasn’t an autistic kid, if it was an unsympathetic criminal, it is just as serious. John H. Bryan, Esq.
The Universe
The universe is far more complex than Genesis, and far more simple than Darwin. Self
Perfect Enough
Le mieux est l’ennemi du bien. (The perfect is the enemy of the good) Voltaire
Perfection is the enemy of progress. Winston Churchill
Ockham’s Razor
Entia non sunt multiplicanda praeter necessitatem. William of Ockham
Squeaky Wheel
Squeaky wheel gets the grease, sometimes a sledge hammer. Self
The Stupid Stick
Cousin, you so dumb that smacking you in the head with the stupid stick would raise your IQ. Self
Inverted culpability
Knowledge of the law is no defense while ignorance of the law is no excuse! self
Social Balance
When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall, one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle. Edmund Burke (1770)
Plan A and Plan B
There is no Plan B. You have Plan A, and you keep working at it until it happens. There is no Plan B. Zac Baker, 60 Days In
Plan B gets in the way of Plan A. Ashleigh Baker, 60 Days In
Horse and Water
I led the horse to water. I made the horse drink. The horse drowned in the process. I beat the dead horse to a pulp. The currents carried away the horse. The horse is no longer my problem. Self
Social Accountability
We are accountable not for what we are taught but for what we learn. (In other words, we are not accountable for being taught bigotry or racism or sexism or xenophobia, but we are accountable for learning those behaviors.) Self
The best you can
And if all you ever really do is the best you can, well, you did it man. That’s something to be proud of. That’s a life you can hang your hat on. Montgomery Gentry, “Something to Be Proud Of”
Civil Disobedience
Disobedience is the true foundation of liberty. The obedient must be slaves. Henry David Thoreau
Strength
My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; He is all I will ever need. Psalm 73:26 NLT
Out of phase
I was created out of phase with everyone else so that I might see what no one else sees Self
Focus and Belief
I never thought of the possibility of failing, only of the fame and glory I was going to get when I won. I could see it. I could almost feel it. When I proclaimed that I was the greatest of all time, I believed in myself, and I still do. Mohammed Ali
Articulated Position
You’re not wrong, but you’re also not fully correct. Self
Perpetual Goal Setting
Never quit. Set a goal and don’t quit until you attain it. When you do attain it, set another goal, and don’t quit until you reach it. Never quit. Paul “Bear” Bryant
Scope and Focus
You don’t need to boil the ocean to make a cup of coffee. unk
Actual patriotism
Some whom the nation condemns as traitors are patriots because they give their lives so that freedom might live. Self
(Un)principled people
Unprincipled people can’t engage principled people
. Self
When Right ≠ Legal
There have been times throughout American history where what is right is not the same as what is legal. Sometimes to do the right thing you have to break a law. Edward Snowden
Sorrow Is Not Pessimism
And the truth about me is not that I’m really volatile and I’m unstable, but that I’m really vibrant, and the color of my sorrow is just as bright as the stripes of my delight. Jenny Slate on All Things Considered
Not a Lawyer
You think that I have no strategy because I’m not a lawyer, but it’s because I’m not a lawyer that you don’t perceive my strategy—I am not limited by the way lawyers think. Self
Reassembly
Only once we have been shattered can a higher power guide us through the reassembly. Self
Risk Reward
The fucking you aim to give me ain’t worth the fucking I’ll give you in return. Self
The Unexamined Life
Blind Sight
So, you mock my blindness? Let me tell you this. You with your precious eyes, you’re blind to the corruption of your life, to the house you live in, those you live with—who are your parents? Do you know? All unknowing you are the scourge of your own flesh and blood… Sophocles, Oedipus Rex, ±ln 409
Personal Growth
In any given moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety. Abraham Maslow
One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again. Abraham Maslow
Group Mentality
No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible. Stanisław Lec (disputed)
Audacity and Destiny
One man can summon the future. Jolene Blalock as T’Pol in Star Trek Enterprise S4E13 (“Unified”)
Transfer to my enemy
May this suffering be removed from me and cast upon my enemies (and may they know whence it came!). Self (recovering from first-ever migraine)
De venganza a victoria
Venganza es de Dios, Compensación es de Dios, Consecuencia es de Dios, pero Victoria es de nosotros! Self
Respect our rights
Our rights don’t end where your fear begins. Freedom is scary. Deal with it. John Bryan
Untimely Experience
Experience is something you don’t have until just after you need it. Self
Good Judgment
Good judgment comes from experience which mostly comes from bad judgment. Jason Statham as Arthur Bishop in The Mechanic
Change
Understand as it is, imagine as it can, strive as it will. Self
Three Types of Denizens
It would seem that there are three types of people: cowards who run from risk, fools who ignore risk, and agents who accept risk. Self
Today’s Best
The essence of our “best” is not whether it can be somehow improved upon at a later time. Today’s “best” will produce tomorrow’s “better still” which will expose shortcomings of yesterday’s “best.” Our “best” is only our “best” as long as we cannot improve upon it until tomorrow. That is, the essence of our “best” is not whether it can be somehow improved upon at a later time. Our best is cognizable by our inability to improve upon it today. Self
Beautiful Truth
Beauty is truth, truth beauty—that is all ye know on earth, and all ye need to know. John Keats, Ode on a Grecian Urn
Omnia in glorium Dei
sive ergo manducatis sive bibitis vel aliud quid facitis omnia in gloriam Dei facite Cor I 10,31
Effort and Grace
I’m doing what I can, when I can, as best I can, and hope for whatever grace can be found. Self
Horse’s Tail
Sometimes I’m the head, sometimes the tail. But even the tail leads when the horse finds it necessary to back up. Self
Maintaining Liberty
He that would make his own liberty secure, must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty, he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself. Thomas Paine (1795)
Know it all
It is not that I know it all, but rather that I know the one who knows it all. Self
Paradox of Self-improvement
Sometimes pain screams so loud that we can’t hear Wisdom whisper. Self
Pain speaks louder than healing and agony argues with wisdom. Self
Knowing and Dreaming
Knowing little dreams lots. Self
Going Big
Go big or go home, but don’t bet the farm or the cow so that there is still a home option. Self
Go big or go home, but make sure you don’t bet the farm or the cow. Self
Go big or go home, but be judicious in going all-in so that there will still be a farm and a cow waiting if going home becomes necessary. Self
Victim Narratives
When the wolf tells the story, the sheep and shepherds are always the enemy. Unk
Looking Back to See Forward
The further back you can look, the further forward you can see. Unknown (often attributed to Winston Churchill, never confirmed)
Future History
Some people think the future means the end of history. Well, we haven’t run out of history quite yet. Your father called the future ‘the undiscovered county.’ People can be very frightened of change. William Shatner as Capt. James T. Kirk in Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country
Hindsight
My hindsight is so good, I should walk through life backward. Self
Seeing Braille
I don’t have to be blind to recognize braille. That doesn’t mean I claim to read it. Self
Inimical Haste
Haste is the enemy of Prudence. Self
No surprises here
Um, have we met? My initials are A.D.H.D. Self
Fear Itself
So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is…fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance. In every dark hour of our national life, a leadership of frankness and of vigor has met with that understanding and support of the people themselves which is essential to victory. And I am convinced that you will again give that support to leadership in these critical days. Franklin Delano Roosevelt
Multiple explanations
That is a possible explanation but another explanation is possibly very probable. Self
Learning Forgiveness
The easiest way to learn to forgive is to surround yourself with and read about people who have learned to forgive. Their stories will impart the ability. Hillary Rodham Clinton
Force
My words land hard. Self
Apathy Nurtures Evil
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing. Edmund Burke (disputed)
Egotism
It’s so easy to hurt others when you can’t feel pain. Hall & Oates, “Rich Girl”
Looking for signs
We often ask for signs when what we really want is encouragement. Self
Saving Lives
Whoever saves a single life is considered by scripture to have saved the world. Talmud, Sanhedrin 37a
Sharing Happiness
Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared. Buddha
Autonomous Freedom
they have become free forever, knowing good from evil; to act for themselves and not to be acted upon. 2 Nephi 2:26
Contentment Is Good
Even so, I have noticed one thing, at least, that is good. It is good for people to eat well, drink a good glass of wine, and enjoy their work. Ecclesiastes 5:18
Irrelevant awareness of law
Neither ignorance of the law nor understanding thereof are defenses presently in the American legal system. Self
No Fairness in Life
Not all things in life are colored with the same shade of crayon (and some ill-deserving bastard will always have the deluxe set). Self
Government Fright
I think you all know that I’ve always felt the nine most terrifying words in the English language are: I’m from the Government, and I’m here to help. Ronald Reagan
Incapable of Incompetence
You are incapable of that level of incompetence. Jonathan Frakes as Cmdr. William Riker in Star Trek: The Next Generation S4E8
Disputation
The person who cannot refute a disagreeable position holds an indefensible position, lacks pathos, or lacks acumen. Self
Possibilities
It is never too late to be what you might have been. George Eliot (Mary Ann Evans)
Many Eyes in Team
There is no “I” in team, but there are twice as many “eyes” as there are players and an “aye” in the middle. Self
Merry hearts rejoice
A merry heart makes for willing and abundant praise. Self
Private Citizens, Public Servants
I’m a private citizen with rights, but you’re a public servant with duties. Self
Unnecessary Words
I don’t need to hear what you don’t need to say. Diana Muldaur as Katherine Pulaski in Star Trek: The Next Generation S2E14 (“The Icarus Factor”)

